- Keep the faith.
If you know me, then you will have read a Quote of the Day or two. Or three.
Well, here is one of my absolute favorites, from Harriet Beecher Stowe:
“When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you until it seems that you cannot hold on for a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time when the tide will turn.”
In the course of living, things can get hairy. You may find yourself in that one especially tight place. Or, more than one. All at once.
And more often than one cares to admit, you may desperately seek the exits. Look for an escape route. Give up on things a little too early.
Quitting just moments in advance of the turning tide.
Of this, I know.
But experience can be a great teacher. And as Ms. Stowe implies, it only “seems” that you cannot hold on for a minute longer.
“Seems” is entirely subjective.
So if you buckle and allow circumstances to rule the day, then “seems” can make the transition and become doubt.
And your doubts will only betray you.
So, never give up.
Because that only seems to be the way out.
Despite the fact that it is precisely the place and time when the tide will turn.
- Let it be.
A great song by the Fab Four.
And what can be an intentional course of action in the face of overwhelming adversity.
Sometimes one can become so intent on fixing things, that a hurried and harried attempt at repair can lead to further destruction.
Even irreparable harm.
So fight the reflexive urge.
And let it be.
Sometimes, time needs itself.
Needs to put some distance between the here, the now and what will be. Time needs to work its wonders.
A most difficult situation to overcome when it seems that you have to do something.
Sort of what Ms. Stowe was describing.
So let go.
And let it be.
Allow your emotions to subside.
Then discern your best path forward.